Sunday, January 02, 2011

A (Wo)Man and (Her)His Dog

This post is in honor of Barry who touched many of us with his love of his dog and his blogging tales of their many walks together.

We have always had a dog in the family as long as I can remember.  That is until Buster, a mixed breed mutt, passed away about 10 years ago.  Then with the children moving out and with us changing houses we decided to hold off on getting another canine companion for a while.  Dogs have usually been an important part of my life.  I got my first dog, a collie, when I was about seven years old.  Taking hikes and walks with mans best friend has been the best therapy on gray days.

I have always been surprised at how certain dogs can look at me and I can immediately relate to them.  It is as if we are doing a "Vulcan mind-meld" as we lock eyes and even perhaps put our foreheads together.  We seem to understand each other, have the same energy levels and the same fun levels and actually seem to be exchanging ideas.  This happens to certain dogs whether they are at a shelter or out with their master/mistress.  One day I will take one of these mind-meld dogs home if he is free.

While walking around the National Mall last month, and checking out the many museums, I also had time to watch those who had brought their best friend out for the day.  This fellow and his dog in the photo below are very close.  All he had to do was shift an elbow or raise an eyebrow and the dog would respond with glee or by doing a trick.  The dog spent about 5 minutes just following commands for the man before they went on their way.



This gal and her dog had a very different relationship as both were free spirits here mimicked by their flowing locks.  There was a spring in their step as they walked by me.  They exchanged mischievous glances upon discovering the doves gathering on the lawn nearby.  Neither her she nor the dog wanted to follow any commands this day and I could tell when she first saw the doves in the lawn that skipping with her dog to that feathered group was the only fun challenge that was on both their minds as they locked eyes in agreement.  The geese in the far background were also wary of this game and sensed the mischievous nature of their stroll.  The dog remained on a leash, of course.  (Yes, these are two of the dozen or so lost photos...this one only exists on Blogger's Picasa and in condensed format.)

He is my other eyes that can see above the clouds; 
my other ears that hear above the winds. 
He is the part of me 
that can reach out into the sea.....Gene Hill

17 comments:

  1. You know I love my dogs. The picture with the doves almost looks 3D. Amazing!

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  2. That lovely mind meld. They don't call them man's best friend for nothing, eh?

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  3. I feel flawed because I have never formed a real heart connection with any pet. I like and respect them enough but don't understand the connection I see that others have and would NEVER let pet sleep in my bed!

    I feel like a bah humbug today.

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  4. Beautiful sentiments about our 'best friends"

    Happy New Year

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  5. All I could think about on the way home from New Zealand was getting my dogs back from the kennel. They were ecstatic, and ecstatic again when we got to the ferry and they knew they were really going home.

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  6. Aw. my Benno is getting old and he was a little off-colour over the holidays. Stress probably, because of upheaval in our home.
    He is himself again, which is slower than he used to be.

    What would I do without him, he is my constant companion whenever I leave the house.except when I have to go to those d....d parties.

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  7. Happy New Year dear Tabor. I am charmed by these two photos, and I can see the man and the well trained dog in my minds eye.

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  8. Anonymous8:37 PM

    Mind meld - that's a beautiful way to describe what sometimes happens.

    To Colleen who says she's never experienced it - add yet to that. I didn't understand until a few years ago. I ended up getting 2 cats and I thought I was more of a dog person. They didn't sleep in my bed or even go in my room for the first while. Now, I miss them when they aren't there at night. Last night, one slept under the covers against the back of my knees. Love it. Never say never. Gail D

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  9. I know that mind-meld and I love it when it happens. We have not had a dog for about 15 years; two cats only. I think when they are gone, I will get a small dog. I love my daughter's malti-poo.

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  10. Have you seen this? http://www.facebook.com/home.php?ref=home#!/video/video.php?v=1497465964799&comments

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  11. Chris, you need to be less shy...especially when linking to such a lovely video.

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  12. RYN: Dear Tabor: I just archive cards, letters, medical stuff, and writings worth submitting somewhere. Plus ephemera, of course. I use letter size, acid free, grey boxes the same as the museums use. You can find them at the Container Store or various museum supply stores online. They make them bigger and smaller, but I find the letter size not only fit all the stuff I get each year, they fit on the shelves I have just waiting for more ephemera. :)

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  13. Ahh, Tabor, as you might have guessed, this one goes straight to my heart. I have never, in my whole long life, been dogless.

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  14. Great post Tabor! As a child there were special friends I'll remember forever. We didn't have a dog for the longest time, until 4 years ago when Maddox joined our family... boy what a difference in this household, he brings us all such joy, everyday!

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  15. One of my friends says he is worried about the close relationship I have with my dog - (The Other Half is just as close to her as I am) - but I am just grateful. Love the pictures.

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  16. Dogs are special. Gus has been a terror & a joy. We still miss Max the wonder cowdog, but he's with us in spirit.

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  17. Lovely post and great photos, Tabor!
    Dogs are very special for me. I miss so much my dear Flora...(Sigh)

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